Digital Media and Mental Health — Another Opinion
Tuesday, June 15th, 2010Stan questioned the methodology of the data, and as a youth, I question both the results and the hypothesized causes. True, maybe “callous reality television” is making us youth more ‘detached’, but maybe not. Ok, so we may not develop empathy watching the girls on The Hills shop for purses (except maybe for the poor cameramen who have to film Spencer and Heidi’s nauseating displays of affection), but what about reality shows that highlight very real issues like drug addiction, health problems and poverty? Is there a difference between letting someone cut in front of you in line and crying into your Ben and Jerry’s for the contestant on American Idol who has had a difficult life struggle?
The other day I heard a story on CBC radio’s Mainstreet about a school in Halifax that implemented a problem solving strategy based on restorative justice, which focuses on the needs of both the victim and the perpetrator. The students at this elementary school regularly engage in ‘circles’, where everyone involved in the conflict answers five simple questions about the incident and their feelings about what happened. This approach has been effective in helping kids mend relationships and put themselves in someone elses shoes. Through this process, the kids are strengthening their ability to empathize, and in fact now regularly ask to engage in this dialogue! The effectiveness of this technique was highlighted in a teacher’s comment that recently she returned to her classroom after running across the hall to find that her grade two students had self-organized and were taking turns sharing compliments about one another!
Maybe these students displayed empathy since they are too young to be corrupted by the ills of social networking. Because of course, no conversation about the self-centeredness of today’s youth would be complete without a discussion of the hazards of Facebook, Twitter, and other tools of social media. Do these tools merely make it easier for us to “ignore others pain”, as the article suggests? How about Facebook groups formed in support of political prisoners, ill friends and relatives, or victims of natural disaster? Avaaz.org, the largest global web movement in history, has had 20,000,000 actions taken since 2007, many of those by youth who are concerned about injustices faced by friends and strangers worldwide. Youth may now be less likely to look after a friend’s plant (keep in mind Stan’s point about the reliability of this data), but how about youth from across the globe who participated in an online photo campaign that was instrumental in pressuring coffee giant Starbucks to create more equitable policies for Ethiopian coffee growers? Social media allows us to empathize with both our local and global neighbours.
Is taking the time to sign an online petition in support of others more or less empathetic than returning incorrect change? Does watching reality television chip away at our sense of concern for others? Are parents actively failing kids today, by teaching them success first, sympathy second? Or are we as youth merely finding other ways to express our empathy and connection with others? The article neglected to mention that youth volunteerism has been steadily increasing over the past decade, as has service-learning. So let’s stop stereotyping youth and start celebrating them. What a show of empathy that would be!
What do you think? Are youth more or less empathetic than in previous generations?
–Jess

